When You Say Yes But Mean No : How Silencing Conflict Wrecks Relationships and Companies... and What You Can Do about It Matthieu Ricard and a clear-eyed assessment of

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When You Say Yes But Mean No : How Silencing Conflict Wrecks Relationships and Companies... and What You Can Do about It Matthieu Ricard and a clear-eyed assessment ofWe live in a cultureespecially at workthat prefers harmony over discord, agreement over dissent, speed over deliberation. We often smile and nod to each other even though deep down we could not disagree more. Whether with colleagues, friends, or family members, the tendency to paper over differences rather than confront them is extremely common. We believe that the best thing to do to preserve our relationships and to ensure that our work gets done as